Divorce Mediation FAQ

What is divorce mediation?

Divorce mediation is a cooperative process where a neutral third party (the mediator) helps couples work through the financial, parenting, and logistical aspects of divorce. The mediator does not take sides or make decisions for you — instead, I guide you through structured conversations to help you both reach mutually acceptable agreements.

How does divorce mediation work?

Mediation begins with gathering and organizing all relevant information, especially financial records. One of the most important steps is collecting details about marital assets and debts to create a clear picture of your marital estate. This includes bank accounts, retirement funds, investments, real estate, vehicles, loans, and other obligations. Once the marital estate is established, we address:

• Equitable distribution of assets and debts,

• Parenting time and children’s schedules (if children are involved),

• Child support and financial arrangements,

• Any other matters unique to your family.

What happens with the marital home in mediation?

The marital home is often the most significant asset for a couple. In mediation, we explore all available options: one spouse keeping the home, selling the home and dividing the proceeds, or other creative arrangements that fit your financial and family needs.

How is income considered in mediation?

Income is factored into discussions about child support, household expenses, and financial stability after divorce. Both partners provide documentation of income so that decisions are made using accurate, transparent information.

How are assets divided?

Assets are divided according to the principle of equitable distribution under New Jersey law. Equitable means fair — not necessarily equal. Together, we review the marital estate and work toward a division that is balanced and realistic for both spouses.

How does parenting time work in mediation?

We design a children’s schedule that prioritizes their best interests while also considering each parent’s availability, work commitments, and household routines. The goal is to create stability and reduce conflict for the children.

How do you make sure mediation is fair?

I remain neutral throughout the process and ensure both spouses have an equal opportunity to share their perspectives. All decisions are made with full transparency. If either spouse feels uncomfortable or rushed, we pause and work to restore balance before moving forward.

What if communication is difficult between us?

Mediation is designed for couples who struggle to communicate on their own. I provide structure, set clear ground rules, and guide conversations so that they remain respectful and productive. When necessary, I can meet with each spouse separately for parts of the process.

Can you file the divorce paperwork for us?

No. As a mediator, I cannot file legal documents for you.

Can we file for divorce without attorneys?

It is possible to file for divorce on your own. However, I strongly recommend that each of you use an attorney to review and file the necessary paperwork. Having attorneys involved ensures that your rights are protected and that your agreements are properly filed with the court.

Do we still need attorneys if we use mediation?

Yes, I recommend that each spouse consult with an attorney. Even though mediation minimizes conflict and reduces the need for lengthy legal battles, an attorney’s role is to provide you with legal advice and ensure your agreement is fair and enforceable.

What issues can be addressed in mediation?

I can mediate the entire divorce process, or specific issues such as:

• Parenting time and children’s schedules,

• Division of property and debts,

• Support arrangements,

• Post-divorce modifications or disputes.

Do you collaborate with other professionals?

Yes. While I remain a neutral mediator, I often collaborate with attorneys, financial advisors, real estate agents, and other experts when their input is needed. This ensures that you have accurate information about legal, financial, and property matters so you can make informed decisions.

Why should we work with you?

My approach is structured, compassionate, and solution-focused. Divorce is already one of the hardest life transitions — it doesn’t need to be made more difficult. I concentrate on the key areas that matter most: creating a clear marital estate, dividing assets and debts fairly, and designing practical children’s schedules. I help couples keep a “big picture” mindset so you can both move forward with clarity and stability. As a Licensed Social Worker in New Jersey, I also bring years of specialized training and experience in divorce mediation and discernment counseling, along with professional collaboration with attorneys, financial advisors, real estate agents, and other experts.

Where are sessions held?

Sessions are available via Zoom or in-person in Moorestown, NJ.